Tips for the modern dad.
1. Be there.
• In the past, a man is married and should be to “keep the secret birth. Today, business woman, he is welcome to the extent possible the biological process. It is acceptable to take off from work to visit family events.
2. Be an example.
• What are the weaknesses of his own father, forgive and forget. May the best person, model, their children, they want to keep.
• Know the “line in the sand” You: can not be more than one line and you free If you do this, the difficult decisions come more easily..
3. Be a team with your spouse
• Parents come in two varieties: men and women. You do not have to carry all the weight on his shoulders. Things to discuss with your partner and share responsibility. Let your argument in private, before decisions are taken. Save the other, the memory is a common goal to raise their children with a reliable framework for life.
4. Be polite to learn manners.
• Good manners are the lubricant can rub people together in relative harmony. I do not speak of “label”, but only ways of speaking each treated as the same value on a human scale.
• One of the simplest things you can teach more respectful to your children, “thank you” to tell him when she made her daily service. Lead by example and guide their children to follow. It is good for those who are happy to assist you. It’s great when you show appreciation.
5. Do you have self-esteem, teaching them.
• Respect automatically leads to respect for others. It is a weak and uncertain, the need to improve their self-image of bullying or denigrate others.
6. You have self-discipline, to educate them.
• Children who are smart enough to “do what I say, not knowing what I’m doing” BS line. Do not wash reason. If you “can not” stop smoking, eating or drinking in excess, you can not expect their children to regulate their own behavior. If you “can not” control your mood, you can not serve model for their son and daughters. Be consistent. What children are less confused.
• Do not hurt children to learn self-discipline.
7. Be nice to teach goodness.
• The song says: “Love makes the world go around” but this is not true Love has many forms – romantic, parents, siblings, patriotic – all capable of causing pain.. Love is the theater, and poetry. Has been achieved without the participation of them are made of good and evil, Shakespeare and Dante will run out of material.
• Quality is the real solution to the friction between people of different habits and opinions. Goodness develops empathy: the ability to imagine ourselves in another position. The new observations by biologists who study the unusual friendship between animals of different species showed empathy is not unique to humans. When bears and tigers can control, we can fewer people?